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Why Are So many black gay and lesbian stars still in the closet?

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It is not rocket science to be cognizant that folk rock singer Tracy Chapman is a lesbian. So why is Chapman still reticent after all these years? Chapman has sold millions of albums, is a multiple Grammy award winner, and a black lesbian feminist icon. It’s not like Chapman’s audience is oblivious to the fact she’s gay.

Another interesting fact, Tracy Chapman’s core audience is white and not black. Even though, Chapman sings about racism and other forms of discrimination, she never was accepted by the black community.

I think some black people just didn’t “connect” with Tracy Chapman  due to homophobia and sexism.

I think most black people already know Tracy is a lesbian.

Another reason, the black community can’t “connect” with  Tracy Chapman is due to the fact she is a folk rock singer and not an R&B and soul

singer.

Some blacks say Tracy Chapman is acting white and that’s such bullshit.

Why can’t a black entertainer break the racist and sexist stereotypes? I applaud Tracy Chapman for having her own vision and being extremely successful. Why should all black singers just sound like Mary J Blige or Beyonce? Isn’t this boring? Musical taste is a personal choice and preference it’s just interesting that many blacks have shunned Chapman for so many years.

Why has Tracy Chapman been on the cover of Rolling Stone but not Essence, Upscale, or Ebony Magazine?

After all, Chapman is a multi platinum international superstar. Why is Chapman shunned by the black media?

Although Tracy doesn’t discuss this it’s got to hurt, that her own race disrespects her this way. Tracy Chapman is a legend, it is so horrible that black people have no respect for this legend.

Chapman was never really embraced by the black media or  black community for a variety of reasons. Another reason, I believe Tracy Chapman wasn’t accepted by the black community is due to her androgynous appearance.

Another point to consider, is the black media can be very myopic at times. Tracy Chapman was never treated fairly by the press in the black community. Tracy was often ignored on black radio, BET, black magazines and newspapers.

Tracy is an incredible artist a black woman that defied the odds.

She is a music superstar, she shattered through the pop world and claimed her place and audience. Chapman’s tours are very successful and yet the black race ignored her due to prejudice. Tracy has never denied her blackness she has always been a proud black woman and yet blacks still treat her badly.

Why is the representation of “black music” so limiting? I think there is more to black music then just R&B and hip hop. However, black radio and the people in the black media still promote less talented artists than Tracy Chapman. I think if the black media did make the effort Tracy Chapman could of had a larger black audience. I do wish black radio, black TV was a bit more open about different musical formats. I mean why isn’t Meshell N’Degeocello on BET more often?

Tracy Chapman has never denied she is a lesbian, but she hasn’t exactly been open about her sexuality either. I understand Tracy has a career and she has a right to a private life. However, given the fact that black gays and lesbians we have so little visibility in the mainstream it would be nice if Tracy was more open.

By now, I am sure, everyone knows that the bisexual feminist writer Alice Walker and Chapman were involved in a romantic relationship. Walker talked about her former lover Chapman in an interview with the UK newspaper The Guardian. Here is the link: http://books.guardian.co.uk/comment/story/0,,1972800,00.html

Luther Vandross situation is similar to Tracy Chapman, but Vandross was loved and respected in the black global community. Vandross was gay yet he kept his secret leading all the way to his death. People will say well the black audience didn’t care that Luther was gay we loved him anyway. I disagree. I think the love the black audience had for Luther was not unconditional because if it was he would of come out. I think Luther remained in the closet not just because he feared about losing revenue by coming out but he also feared losing his place within the black community.

Vandross was cognizant that he needed the black heterosexual audience to buy his CDs, concert tickets, DVDs. Vandross also was aware of the fact the white gay community certainly was not a market he could rely on to keep the revenue flowing. Luther had a “don’t ask don’t tell policy” with the black community. I think its so sad that Luther’s life was a tragedy he wasn’t able to really be himself in the public sphere. The black media did ask Luther numerous times in interviews about his sexual orientation and he always either ignored the question or just denied that he was gay. I wonder though, would the black community really turn on him? Everyone knew, Luther was the “eternal bachelor.”

It was the “fear” I think that held Luther back the unknown. In some ways Luther was a sex symbol for some black women he sang songs about heterosexual love. Vandross was the “classy” R&B singer he didn’t sing the bump and grind such as R Kelly and his clones.

Yet when a black entertainer does have the courage to come out the black community and the mainstream white gay community either ignores or disrespects the openly gay/bisexual black artist. Bisexual singer Meshell N’Degeocello has been out for several years although she has never attained the success or respect she so richly deserved. I still believe there was a resistance to her work because she was so brash, bold, and outspoken. Meshell never denied or hid the fact she is bisexual.

When I was coming out as a teenager, in the mid 1990s, it really helped me a lot to accept my sexuality. I remember watching  Meshell talk about her sexuality and life on Much Music. People that are not black and gay don’t understand what it feels like to invisible and be a double or even triple minority.

When K.D. Lang and Melissa Etheridge came out in the 1990s they did not register with me because they are white. I just couldn’t relate to them. Yet when I saw an interview with this courageous young black woman Meshell N’Degeocello on Much Music I felt  empowered. Meshell she discussed  her incredible second album the amazing “Peace Beyond Passion” and the song “Leviticus Faggot”.

I love Meshell! Meshell is one of my role models! It was incredible for me to see this black LGBT woman Meshell N’Degeocello on television talking about how wonderful it is to be black and an LGBT person.

It meant so much to me to see someone that looked like me on TV that was black and gay. It takes a lot of guts what Meshell did it really does.

Meshell never looked like the typical female black singer she has a shaved head, her music was not just soul, it was also rock, funk, pop, maybe even some folk too. Meshell was not a puppet controlled by the record company either. Although Meshell is slim she wasn’t a size two, she didn’t wear the designer clothes but she has a lot of natural talent and is a true multi instrumentalist musician. Meshell was radical in the sense she was proud of her sexual orientation and her blackness.

Meshell has spoken honestly about the pernicious racism, hypocrisy, and bigotry of the mainstream white gay community. When Meshell came out she didn’t receive that much press in the white gay media either. Meshell she was ignored by the mainstream white gay magazines such as Out or Advocate. The white gay media treated Meshell as though she was just an afterthought. However, I felt Meshell was so incredibly talented and her talent allowed her to rise to the top.

There was an indifference and ambivalence the white gay press had for her because she is an outspoken black bisexual woman. Meshell refused to play the racist game of ignoring her “blackness” to just focus on her “sexuality.” Meshell she was cognizant of the fact there is an intersection of race, sexuality, and gender.

Meshell let it be known that just because she is bisexual does not mean she didn’t care about black issues or the black community. Some heterosexual black people still believe this fallacy that just because a black person is gay that means we don’t care about black issues and that’s false.

I know for a fact that although there is homophobia in the black community the racism in the mainstream white gay community is so rampant and so obvious. It’s the reason why I couldn’t be bothered with the gay pride events in Toronto, I don’t read the gay newspapers because they never write about issues or things I am interested in. I don’t go to the gay bars in Toronto either.

Some people say Meshell’s music was too ”preachy” meaning too “black” but I loved it! Meshell should of sold millions of albums she should of become a bigger star. Meshell can play several instruments and she also is a very good singer/songwriter. Meshell basically started the “Neo Soul” movement all by herself in 1993 with her first album”Plantation Lullabies.”

Yet black heterosexual singers Erykah Badu, Maxwell, and Jill Scott get all the credit. Meshell released five albums on the Maverick label yet not one album went gold or platinum. Meshell never even won a Grammy award. How could such a talented artist be so disrespected? I think part of the reason Meshell wasn’t more successful was because she was honest about her sexual orientation.

I remember when I was sixteen back in the year 1993 and I had the biggest crush on Tevin Campbell I absolutely adored him. A lot of people I talk to these days say they always knew Tevin was gay. I recall rushing home from school and tape recording Tevin’s hit songs “I’m Ready”, “Always in my heart”, “Can we talk” and playing the videos over and over and over again. I just loved him! I still believe Tevin’s second album “I’m Ready” is one of the best R&B albums of the 1990s. Tevin as everyone knows got caught a few years back trying to solicit gay sex with an undercover police officer. Tevin has never officially come out of the closet but its well known he’s gay. Tevin is trying to make a comeback he’s in the musical “Hairspray” and he’s working on a new album. So is Tevin going to be singing about loving a woman when everyone knows he prefers men? I understand the music business is after all a business but shouldn’t music be made from the heart? Why do so many closeted black gay and lesbian singers sing about the opposite sex when everyone knows they are gay?

There are a few black rappers that everybody knows are lesbians yet they will continue saying in the press that they aren’t gay. I mean people aren’t stupid people can put it together. I am not going to mention the names of these black lesbian rappers because anyone that’s paid attention to hip hop music can figure it out.

There are also some black entertainers everyone knows are bisexual or gay yet its another one of those “don’t ask don’t tell” policies. I can understand if the black gay actor was a leading man it could perhaps shatter the mystique the female audience has with this entertainer. I think that could be a reason some of the black gay male actors in Hollywood remain in the closet. Also, there is the issue of being typecast.

I wonder if we will ever be honest with each other? Anyone that’s been to the black church knows there is always the ubiquitous choir director, gay piano player, or gay pastor. Everybody knows somebody that’s gay whether it is a realtive or a friend.

The easiest way fans can figure out if an artist is indeed gay is not by what they say but by what the entertainer doesn’t say. Actions speak louder then words. Whenever you read an interview about your favourite black star think to yourself why does this black celebrity never talk about his or her’s love life? Why is the topic off limits during the interview?

Whether people want to admit it or not the public wants a connection with stars. It is the human connection that not only attracts people to the star but also gets people to go see their movies, buy their CDs, DVDs, or got to their concerts. If society is so accepting of homosexuality these days why is there an imbalance in the type of stars coming out and those that remain in the closet?

Written by orvillelloyddouglas

Wednesday , September 12 , 2007 at '1:16'

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  1. this is an interesting post! thanks for shedding some light from your perspective. i think we straight black people can be so heterosexist, it’s disgusting. this is something that is barely talked about. i have heard of meshell but i have never heard of her songs.

    we still live in a world of persecution. when you came out, that was definitely brave and good for you. i think the reason tracy C doesn’t want to is she comes across so private. she doesn’t seem like ellen, in terms of wanting everyone to know. perhaps the beauty lies in not everyone knowing since it is her business. that said, black gay people deserve role models and i agree with your sentiments.

    aulelia

    Friday , September 14 , 2007 at '18:31'

  2. I think it would be great if more black gays had the courage Meshell has. Everyone knows Tracy Chapman is gay but I guess she feels there is no need to come out. Alice Walker has talked about their romance in the media. Meshell has always been true to herself she has never hid the fact she is bisexual. It is kind of sad the black media haven’t given Meshell the respect she deserves.

    orvillelloyddouglas

    Sunday , January 6 , 2008 at '16:40'

  3. I am black and Tracy Chapman has always been my favorite musician. All her songs make lots of meaning and I still don’t understand why she has not been accepted in the black community. Even though she has never opened up about her sexually, Most of us think she is gay and it is very sad that people are still being judged based on sexuality. Why do we even care about are sexually anyways? What matters is that sends sends out a very powerful message through her music.

    Meeh

    Sunday , January 13 , 2008 at '15:25'

  4. I think the reason Tracy Chapman has not been accepted by blacks is because she is a lesbian. Tracy sings about race issues and black politics all the time she is in tune with her blackness. So I think because some blacks sense Tracy is a lesbian and doesn’t have the feminine heterosexual looks and appeal she was ignored.

    orvillelloyddouglas

    Sunday , January 13 , 2008 at '15:53'

  5. I think your article is so beautifully put that it shows the power of negotiation when dealing with issues that are both serious and sensitive. Black culture has taken christianity as a sheild historically to protect in this life and in the next so I can see why we treat our gay sisters and brothers with contempt. However, as society changes, we must try to discuss the issues as they will not go away. For followers of the Book then look for the love (and there is plently in there!) and adhere to your heart- Do you think that Jesus would be impressed if he saw or heard the often vile attacks on black gay people? It is a form of bullying we have aquired as a pecking order in our communities. Anyone using god’s name to hate is not a true christian. Also we are suppressing artists with talent and who could help black people in general to move on? Lets show some LOVE x x
    Billy Holliday, James Baldwin et al all lived to some extent in shame – Lets change things – “All God’s Children – Need Travelling Shoes”

    anthony

    Friday , May 30 , 2008 at '23:18'

  6. IMO, I think that we should be able to celebrate our differences.
    As a straight black woman I never understood WHY people choose to wear their sexuality on their sleeve or ANYthing else for that matter. This world has become social overload. I really don’t care who Tracy or anyone is sleeping with for all that matters.
    I have ALL of Tracy’s albums…my taste. I don’t know why people try to put a rhyme or reason as to WHY somebody doesn’t like something. I don’t like peas, are you going to ask me WHY? Why don’t I embrace peas. It’s all about ones taste. If Tracy appeals to a certain audience–she does. I don’t think it’s fair to ask someone who doesn’t like peas to just enjoy them even though they have tried them. Don’t keep eating peas in my face just b/c that’s your choice

    I also think that publications KNOW their audience and who is reading them. It’s about money and appeasing their audience. Their audience does NOT want Tracy on the cover of their magazines b/c they don’t follow her music. Simple. Why can’t black people pick and choose just like anyone else?

    Finally, Nobody is going to step up and pay these artists’ bills and they love their comfortable lifestyles. Why jeopardize that by sharing TOO DAMN much? We REALLY don’t care. Has Tracy even sought acceptance? Or is she happy right where she is in her place in the world?

    Role models start at home. It’s high time the black community stop looking for others as role models and look at the person in the mirror.
    Anthony: “Move On” to where?
    I’m just tellin’ it like it T-I-Tiz!

    Tiiz

    Tuesday , July 15 , 2008 at '2:22'

  7. I seems as though the sexuality of many historically prominent black figures is always guised, as if their sexuality is more of an embarrassment than an empowerment. Langston Hughes, Wallace Thurman, Alvin Ailey, Alice Walker, Alice Dunbar Nelson, Angela Davis, and Nell Carter are all queer people of color.

    1andonlydel

    Wednesday , July 16 , 2008 at '14:24'

  8. Good article, but I think your article misses one important point. Tracy Chapman does not make hip hop or neo soul. She is best described as alternative folk. Not exactly going to be popular in the black community. I applaud her for her music choices and not selling out but just like Charly Pride was a country singer and not popular with blacks so is Tracy Chapman. Don’t read to much into some things.

    Is black radio ready to air its laundry out in public. No, it’s just the way we were brought up. Don’t give white people a reason to put you down. Is it right? No. See Barack Obama, he is half white highly educated and white America calls him uppity. Who can blame them if they stay in the closet. I say people are going to see you how they see you.

    Don

    Friday , September 12 , 2008 at '13:13'

  9. This is a great article. I also think it’s sad that celebrity black gays/lesbians have to remain in the closet for fear of losing their careers. The down low would probably be a thing of the past if people could live their lives “OUT & Open” but hey, this is the USA. Land of the free, home of the brave, yeah right. I believe we need the voice of other celebrity gay/lesbians to help make a difference with the forth coming generations who is either hiding or wilding out because they have no guidance. “We the People”….Being gay or lesbian in 2008 shouldn’t be this great of an issue. How far have we really come as a society, as a country?

    Only Me

    Friday , September 19 , 2008 at '14:38'

  10. reply to Don:

    You said, regarding Barack Obama, that “white America calls him uppity.” Two things: (1) You can probably count on two hands the number of white folks who call him “uppity”, and (2) if this is how a large portion of white Americans perceive him, then how can it be that (majority white) America is about to vote him into office as President?

    You should realize that we are no longer in the 20th century.

    Eric

    Tuesday , October 21 , 2008 at '12:43'

  11. i think it is wrong for people who judge tracy because of her own private rather than to love her and her beautiful music of which many black artist can’t do or do not sing it.tracy chapman’s music is listinable im a favourate fan of rock music

    allan

    Thursday , October 30 , 2008 at '6:25'

  12. Your article is passionately conveyed and you express yourself beautifully.

    I have been a huge Tracy fan since her debut and couldn’t care less about her sexual orientation, however there seems to be a general misconception resonating from the ’80s that Tracy is a man! What is more interesting is that this seems to be the concensus among people who are into her music while people who know her for ‘fast car’ or ‘baby can I…’ are ambivalent. Yes, she has a baritone voice and is not a ’sexy’ pop singer because after all, as alternative folk goes, most of her well known songs are easily digestible hence appealing to the masses who like their female singers to secretly want them, hehe just kidding but you get my tanktop “ooh it’s DRIFTY in here” idea!

    Melissa

    Thursday , December 11 , 2008 at '6:08'

  13. The article gloss over facts. Charlie Pride is Black. He is not gay. Few Blacks attended his concerts when he was riding on top of the Country & Western charts. Johnny Mathis is gay….he has appeared in most Black publications. James Baldwin was gay…his plays were well received by Black audiences. Most Blacks like most folks have limited entertainment resources. Therefore, they chose what appeal to them. It’s more about taste rather than who is straight or gay…I am a Black who refuses to be boxed in by people who have axes to grind….be it Blacks or Whites! The gay issue is a preference issue….same as heterosexual….who we have sex with is of our choosing….and should not be subjects of public discourses. To think that people ask themselves the sexual preference of individuals before they can be entertain by them is a relic of Jim crowism….What Bradley effect….Obama rested that non-sense! Ms. Price the Opera singer drew mostly White Audiences..yet, she was lionized in the Black Community. Facts are stored in history….one should not proclaim only on current topics. One voice does not speak for all of us….We are varied people…Not stereotypical as the article attempted to resurrect!

    Brumfield

    Thursday , December 25 , 2008 at '17:10'

  14. My being here may surprise some. I was looking up info about Tracy Chapman and came across this Web site. I read the article with interest. For the record, I am a white, straight male 71 years old, occasionally conservative. I may or may not be representative of my peers. I suspected Luther Vandross was gay but that was irrelevant. I enjoyed him as an entertainer and great singer. For decades, “we” suspected Johnny Mathis was gay, but who cared? He was (and still is) a great singer. On Public Television, he recently referred to his “partner” and mentioned a man’s name. I don’t think the “older” white community really cares about sexual orientation of entertainers. In my era, entertainers’ lives were pretty private unless they got busted–like Johnny Ray of the 1950s. I think it’s the younger people who seem to care, probably because half of today’s news is about celebrities and for whatever reason, young people “want to know.”

    Oh, as for the assertion that white people call President Obama “uppity”: I call him MISTER PRESIDENT.

    Jim

    Sunday , April 26 , 2009 at '3:46'

  15. So it is not racist for you to say you do not connect with white lesbians, but it is racist if the white gay community thinks they’re different from black gay people/does not connect with them?

    I haven’t found this to be the case where I live anyway (East England) – my local gay community is as multicultural as the area around it – there are some asians, some africans, but more european gays, which works in proportion with the county. I have never noticed any discrimination on the grounds of colour in the local gay haunts.

    And as for Tracy Chapman – I get that being ‘out’ helps other people, and increases visibility etc, but maybe it does not need to be so explicit – we KNOW Chapman is gay, or at least has certainly had gay relationships. The messages of her songs are not really to do with that most of the time, though I suppose maybe she should not play the pronoun game with lovesongs (it always seems to be ‘you’…) and say ’she’ for a couple of them, if that’s what she means.

    Phoenix

    Tuesday , August 11 , 2009 at '7:21'

  16. Hi sweetie. Imagine my surprise when I did a search for a well known celebrity and found your blog.How are you my darling?

    Francine

    Tuesday , October 6 , 2009 at '20:10'

  17. Hi Francine my dear cousin how are you? I am doing well! What have you been up to? Thanks for checking out my blog!

    orvillelloyddouglas

    Tuesday , October 6 , 2009 at '21:26'

  18. I met Tracey Chapman in Bloomington, Indiana at the Indiana Women’s Music Festival years ago – she was an opening act – she sang many of the songs that later appeared on her first album. They announced that she was from Cleveland, Ohio & so am I! Moreover, I was then a member of “Oven Productions” one of the oldest “women’s (read ‘lesbian feminists’) non-profit producers of “women’s music & culture” in the country! OVEN PRODUCTIONS still exists today! although it’s not very active – In those days, we produced musical concerts with nationally known artists and also local talent, art exhibits, poetry, lesbian comedians, and plays. As an African American, one of only two women of color members, I was always in a struggle with other members to increase the number of Black women & other women of color whose work we produced. We were the first to bring Sweet Honey in the Rock & Linda Tillery to Cleveland.
    the fact that I had never heard of Tracey who lived in my town really upset me… She was astounding! She captured the audience – I don’t even remember who she opened for! As a Black lesbian feminist, I knew it was important to help her perform in Cleveland! I so, I asked her why I had never heard her sing in Cleveland and asked if she would let OVEN produce her in concert. I will paraphrase her response: They beat me up in Cleveland, Ohio, I am never going back. I told her I enjoyed her music and made no further inquiries.
    Years later, she did perform here… I still love her music.
    So, Tracey, if you are reading this, Come home! ;-)

    Leslye M. Huff

    Sunday , October 11 , 2009 at '19:51'

  19. I am a black, heterosexual, believing woman. (I say “believing” as opposed to “Christian” b/c “Christian” is over-claimed and under-lived/practiced and not all so-called Christians believe or submit to the Word of God.)
    I enjoy Tracy Chapman’s music. I find it soulful and soothing. At the same time, I accept what God has said in His Word about His position on sexual immorality, including homosexuality. He’s made it plain; there’s really nothing to add, subtract or consider.
    Contrary to what other posters suggest, it is possible to appreciate an artist and regard him/her well without compromising one’s own beliefs or validating those lifestyle choices of theirs (the artist) that God has judged as sinful and contrary to His way. (Your sister, whom you love dearly, is convinced that it is right and fine to continue the wrong way down a one-way road. Well, the truth is obvious to you! It’s not right or fine (not to mention safe). Are you going set aside what you know to be true and adopt/embrace the error of her thinking because you love her? No! And not doing so is not cause mistreat your sister or love her any less. Ya might wanna get out the car though. *smiling*)
    My position, therefore, is not based on prejudice or blind, foolish and destructive hatred; it’s based on love and reverence for God and His Holy Word.
    Tracy Chapman is a creation of God, blessed with wonderful talent. She is also in rebellion/sin. Full stop. God calls us to hate sin; God, too, calls us to love “the sinner,” which describes, as you may know, the entirety of mankind. Tracy will meet with God’s judgment. As will I. As will you. Read the Word. Get understanding. Be ready. Full stop.

    Speaking plainly

    Friday , December 11 , 2009 at '15:18'

  20. Speaking plainly, I can understand your perspective that you personally do not agree with homosexuality. The purpose of my blog is to promote discussion. Of course, I disagree with your perspective. However, how can you claim you are a fan of Tracy Chapman when you criticize her this way? Just because Tracy Chapman is a lesbian does not mean she should not be respected. Due to homophobia, Tracy has been silent about her lesbianism for all these days because of homophobes.

    You quote the bible which is filled with so many different interpretations. You are entitled to your own opinion about Tracy Chapman but my opinion is your comment reeks of homophobia. Tracy has always spoken out against racial injustice against black people in her music just because she is a lesbian doesn’t mean you have a right to judge her.

    orvillelloyddouglas

    Friday , December 11 , 2009 at '16:01'

  21. “Why Are So many black gay and lesbian stars still in the closet?”
    The same reason the white ones are……MONEY LOL!

    jettt

    Saturday , December 12 , 2009 at '1:19'

  22. [...] Have you ever wondered Why are so many African American and Latino lesbians and gays trapped in the closet? [...]

    Lez-BeHonest Press » Lesbian Link List

    Monday , January 11 , 2010 at '20:07'

  23. Your an idiot. That’s like saying Justin Timberlake needs to announce he’s straight. It’s no ones business, get a life!

    Bob Sanders

    Wednesday , February 17 , 2010 at '4:25'

  24. Bob Sanders there is no need for you to be rude to make your point. Justin Timberlake is a white heterosexual male he has nothing to do with my article. My piece is specifically about the fact black LGBT people we are marginalized in a racist and homophobic society.

    orvillelloyddouglas

    Wednesday , February 17 , 2010 at '14:48'

  25. Well sorry if I came off as rude, I just find it rediculous for someone to be looked down upon for not stating something to the world that is their own business and no one elses. “Tracy Chapman has never denied she is a lesbian, but she hasn’t exactly been open about her sexuality either.” I just dont understand the relavance. Justin Timberlake has not stated he is straight, so therefore I should be confused/upset about why he doesn’t tell everyone in a public statement? Wanting someone to come out just says that you want to know either way to decide how to treat them, when it shouldnt matter because they should be treated the same.

    Bob Sanders

    Thursday , February 18 , 2010 at '3:21'

    • Bob Sanders, I am not “looking down” on Tracy Chapman I respect Tracy Chapman. I love Tracy Chapman she is one of my favourite singers! However, I am not sure if you understand my perspective. The mainstream LGBT community is white dominated it does not relate to my life experience as a black gay person. Advocate, Out Magazine, MTV LOGO, the gay media blogs they ignore the concerns of black gays and lesbians.

      I cannot relate to k.d. Lang or Melissa Etheridge coming out they are white and not black. Black LGBT people we are invisible and displaced in two communities. There are millions of closeted black LGBT people across this world. We deal with the racism of the mainstream culture, the hypocritical racism of the gay culture, and the homophobia within the private sphere of the black community.

      Of course, it would be nice if famous black LGBT come out of the closet. The reason why it would be nice is just a form of affirmation that “yes” there are people in the public sphere that are black and gay. If Tracy Chapman did come out it would mean the world to millions of black LGBT people. After all, Chapman is so political about racism and social injustice yet she is so reticent about her lesbianism. The question is why?

      My piece was about the intersection of race, class, and sexual orienation. We live in a racist homophobic society where whiteness and heterosexuality is privileged. The article is questioning why famous black LBGT people are hiding in the closet and not coming out? My piece is arguing it isn’t just because of “privacy” why black LGBT celebrities hide in the closet. The issue is a lot deeper and more political than people realize. I am simply asking questions in an open space.

      Justin Timberlake doesn’t have to “say” he is straight because we live in a heterosexist culture. Society automatically “assumes” Timberlake is straight since straight people have straight privilege. Timberlake is very open about his heterosexuality he does not hide his famous A list starlet girlfriends.

      The reason I started off my piece writing about Tracy Chapman is because although she is famous she is private about her lesbianism. Also, Bob did you click on the link to the Guardian newspapaer article? Alice Walker she is Tracy Chapman’s ex girlfriend she talks in detail about her romantic relationship with Chapman. Alice Walker spoke the truth she said Chapman was her ex girlfriend. Alice Walker’s statement proves Chapman is a lesbian.

      orvillelloyddouglas

      Thursday , February 18 , 2010 at '8:47'

  26. Your whole article is based on an assumption with more assumptions added on top, even if many think it is likely she is a lesbian. I really dont mean to come off as confrontational, but it really bothers me that people need to know her business and when people assume how she lives her life. How do you think she would feel if she is straight and read your article? Probably pretty wierded out.

    Bob Sanders

    Thursday , February 18 , 2010 at '3:26'

  27. Director Lee Daniels is out and proud. You’re right there are more celebrities that we assume or know of to be gay and I’ve always said that is a personal matter, but what gets me is the homophobia from our Bible toting community who really doesn’t know a thing about love.

    I also believe they’re afraid to lose their fan base if they were to come out. It must be miserable to live that way. I don’t understand why people are obsessed with who’s gay and I hear it all the time? I don’t read the gossip blogs, but you know that’s their number one subject.

    I hear people at work with their comments against our gay co-workers and I tell them to stop judging them. I often ask these individuals does them being gay make them less than human and would you want someone to treat you like that?

    I see so much pain that masks itself in the form of alcoholism and drug use in our community because men and women don’t have the courage to come out for fear of the ridicule.

    Great blog post and your honesty is infectious, we need more of it. BTW, Tracy,k.d.Lang and Meshell are also my favorites.

    Von

    Friday , March 5 , 2010 at '22:30'


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